
Firstly I would like to let you know that every male has a different taste and craves different girls. If one male sees that beautiful drop dead blonde walking down the street and begins drooling, doesn’t mean that the rest of his friends find her pleasing to the eye and if it ever seems as though they do, its only because they think it is cool and want to be accepted by their friends. Yes she may be thin, pretty, sexy and have absolutely beautiful eyes but not all males crave this sort of woman. Some like the chubby sort, some like the simple sort, some like rough and tumble sort and some like the sophisticated sort. As a matter of fact a lot of males never really end up marrying the sort of woman they dated in high school and their younger years. This is because after a period of time they notice that these females usually have a lot of other guys chasing after them and therefore begin to become a little swollen headed and only concentrate on their beauty as they are use to this asset getting them what they want. Because of this they tend to forget to improve on other things such as the communication skills. Deep down guys want someone they can feel comfortable with and sit and talk to, kind of like one of their “boys”. Besides hasn’t anyone ever told you that a relationship is nothing without friendship? So now that we’ve got that sorted and you now know that you don’t have to be that perfect female we can get to the nitty gritty of dating. On Your First Date… The key here is confidence. You want to show your date that you’re a very wanted woman and if this doesn’t work you have many other guys out there just waiting for their chance to take you out. Don’t be afraid to ask questions (not too many you don’t want him to feel as though he is being questioned at a police station), remember you’re a very wanted woman and you want to make sure that he is the best of the lot and that you wont be wasting your time with him. Be straightforward! Tell him exactly what it is that you want out of a relationship, this will show him that you are not here to waste time and will lead him to think that he is the luckiest man in the world to be out on a date with you. Remember everybody wants what he or she can’t have. Make him feel as though you are very interested in him but at the same time want to make sure that he is better than the rest of the guys just dying to go out with you. So in other words make him think that you absolutely adore him…but at the same time you don’t. This will confuse him, whether it frustrate him or not, when this date is over he will spend the rest of his days trying to figure out what you’re about. So in other words, he wont be able to get you out of his mind. Hehe thank goodness they’re such inquisitive creatures. On Your Second Date Excite him! Show him the daredevil side of you, let you hair down a little. Show him that you can be one of the guys too. Take a little more interest in his hobbies (you should have learned this one on the first date) and make him feel as though you have now accepted him and he should be dam well thankful! Whatever you do, don’t let him know that you were thinking of him! So after the movies or where ever he has chosen to take you, invite him out for a walk on the beach and surprise him with a midnight swim or ask him if he would he would like to go and see your old primary school and then surprise him with a little play on the playground. Whatever you do make it exciting and fun! You want him to think that you are not only a love goddess but also an easygoing down to earth woman. Remember men are always just little boys deep down inside, you just have to unlock it and once you do, you gain more than just common ground (just try not to get a little too childish while you are at it), you gain friendship. Show him how much you both have in common, just like us men look for woman whom they can share everyday conversation with and their intimate feeling with. So now that we’ve got all that sorted I’m going to give you a few extra tips to help you totally impress that guy. • Men love maturity. So show him that you aren’t just a little girl that doesn’t know anything but instead you are a mature woman who knows what the world is about. • While you are showing him that you are mature, be fun and exciting also • Be confident in who you are and what you look like, men love this |

